100 Questions to Ask While Dating
No longer should you live in the energy of unhealed, unconscious, toxic dating. Instead, you feel empowered to truly operate from self-love and self-worth. Not settling for scraps or the bare minimum.
And to ensure you maintain that care for yourself, while having an open heart to find your person, use these wildly important 100 questions while dating.
Listen to your gut, your intuition, your heart and that inner child…are you and this other person truly in alignment? Or are you overlooking things for the sake of “being chosen”?
Stay true to you, your values. The right person for you will come.
This is for the person looking to date intentionally, wanting to really get to know people, with the goal of a long-term commitment.
This is for the person who is sick of dating, connecting with people and having fun, only to then have the rug pulled out from under them 1, 3, 6 months into the relationship.
This is for someone who can get the basics out of the way but wants help taking the conversation deeper. To make it more meaningful.
This is for the person who wants to feel empowered in dating, to create that yummy, electric chemistry while also feeling respected and safe.
Imagine it…
You swipe right and match. You think they’re cute, they have a job at least, so you agree to a date.
You get up the courage to ask a few of the questions from this guide. You thought they were open-minded, but based on some of their answers they seem to be quite selfish and emotionally immature, something they may have been able to disguise for awhile had you not asked these questions. Before the love bombing can even begin, you realize who they are telling you they are and it doesn’t feel good or right to you. You feel empowered, trusting this feeling and know there will be no second date rather than making up excuses for them.
Or…
With a different date, you ask one of these questions you never would have before and were so pleasantly surprised by how mature and insightful their answer was, taking you from an okay, awkward date to a level of depth and connection you’ve never before experienced on a first date. You feel relief that this guide is really helping and are excited to continue getting to know them. Without having gotten to know this side of them, you may never have made it to a second date and missed out on connecting with a good person, regardless of where it ends up.
This guide is juicy, delightful and transformative. It will change the way you date.
You got the “what do you do for work?” and “how many siblings do you have?” type of questions covered.
But these questions will take you to greater depths. Can they handle it? Can you?
While this is a great tool for dating and new relationships, it can also be really fun for couples who have been together for a while or are married, too! Reignite that spark, baby!
And if you don’t feel comfortable with some of these questions, I encourage you to ask yourself why? If you’re not comfortable being able to dive into the depths and to be yourself with this person, is this really someone you want to be with long-term?
Stop ignoring red flags.
Stop settling.
Stop running away from depth, vulnerability, truth.
Really get to know someone. Throw all the BS rules out the window. To then really know and see if this person is who you want to share your body, heart and soul with.
Start dating intentionally and receive the love you crave.